If you want your leadership to count and have real meaning, then transcend from being like a ruler leader into a servant leader.
If you believe that your leadership authority is God-given, then you ought to lead as a servant leader, rather than rule like a taskmaster.
Do away with being like a cruel judge who rules with an iron fist trampling on people's rights that stirs up hate and rebellion. Neither give oppressive decrees that ignites dissent, disloyalty and disunity.
Rather, be a humble and wise servant who leads by example that inspires loyalty, unity, and harmony and encourages cooperation. Let your edicts be righteous and just that uphold truth, justice, and liberty and promote peace.
